Size Matters

Ok, ladies. Let’s be real. Size does matter. I mean, we surely can’t do much with a small, limp penis. We all know it takes a log to get the fire started.

A man wants an enduring erection as much as you do. Probably more! It isn’t called his “manhood” for nothing. When it doesn’t cooperate, a man feels frustrated and can be emotionally affected.

Erectile Dysfunction has many causes. Some men can’t get an erection at all, which many times comes from lack of circulation in the body. This signals a major issue in the body and the man should get a stress done to make sure there are not major blockages in the arteries.

Others get an erection but can’t keep it once they have one. This is often fatigue or emotional issues, usually fear of failure.

Whatever the reason for not being able to achieve or keep an erection, if it happens often enough, it becomes a psychological issue. The man worries that he cannot keep his erection which makes him not get one at all! It is a vicious circle. The woman, feeling totally helpless becomes frustrated and often takes it personally. She can then lose interest and tires of feeling like she isn’t women enough to get a man excited. The cycle becomes even more vicious.

I am not a fan of Viagra or other erectile dysfunction drugs. I have read too many scary side- affects and the stuff is a time bomb waiting to happen. Risking blindness, stroke or heart attack for a fulfilling sex life is often one a man is willing to take but a terrible thought!

While shopping at our local intimate store, I discovered something called Stiff Nights. I was in the mood to be adventurous and the single dosage cost less than a coffee at Starbucks. So, I bought it for my dear husband.
I know we have all seen the ads on television and I really didn’t believe it would do much of anything. Sisters, I BELIEVE! This stuff is amazing!

It takes about 30 minutes to work. Soon I had a freaking tree trunk pointing my way! Ooo baby!
Unlike Viagra, which leaves him erect and throbbing for hours, this is a totally herbal, leafy filled capsule that gives a naturally induced erection and does go away after orgasm. What I mean is it doesn’t just become hard for no reason. It takes the normal activity to induce the erection. It also goes away after ejaculation. However, the rebound time is very fast and he can be ready for another romp very quickly. Frankly, I can’t remember the last time we experienced this amount of endurance. It really was sex life changing.

I hear your question and the answer is YES! It does get bigger! The circulation in the penis is increased and the penis will be thicker and much harder. In fact, I can always tell when he has taken it. It is noticeable.

The only side affect, which the Stiff Nights site is not shy to tell you about, is that men can get headaches the next morning or later that evening. The antidote to that is drinking lots of fluids before and after. My husband found taking only a half of the capsule takes care of that issue all together, without compromising the results of enhancement.

The package recommends drinking caffeine after using the product. Other than that, there are no known side affects. The website has quite a bit of chat from males sharing their experiences with the product. You can purchase larger bottles reducing the cost of each capsule.

Note: Before taking any type of male enhancement, I urge the following test to be done.
Since a man has an erection every night in his sleep, this is an inexpensive and simple test. The test is done using a roll of postage stamps. Right before sleep, use as many linked postage stamps as it takes to encircle the limp penis. Seal the circle. A positive test result is if the chain of stamps is broken. This means circulation in the body is good and your man is likely healthy enough to take a male enhancement.

Live life large! Try Stiff Nights!

It’s easy to get in the mood in a love nest.

What does your bedroom say about your love life? A quick way to judge is to stand at your door and pretend it is a hotel room you just paid $150 a night to stay in. Would you be pleased with your room?

Does your room scream “clean me” or “relax in me?” If it screams anything but “relaxation and peace”, it is time to work on creating a love nest.

In my opinion, the bedroom should be set aside for sleep, relaxation and lovemaking.

If you want to be the mood more often, understand that you cannot relax when work is screaming at them. Clutter, piles of laundry, etc. will create tension and beg for your attention. Your husband is what needs your attention in the bedroom. So look for what does not belong in your bedroom.

Set a timer for 15 minutes and take three bags; a put away, giveaway and throw away bag. Fly through your room as quickly as you can. Do not judge or rationalize. You know what belongs in there and what does not…be ruthless. What is on your dresser? Jewelry, books, laundry? Get rid of it!

If your room is not decluttered in one session, it is ok. Pick up where you left off the next day and do it again until you have an uncluttered room. By the way, clothing is clutter. Once decluttering is completed the rest comes easy.

Now you have a clean area and you can set the scene. Consider what it is you want to happen in your love nest. There are three things that never tingle the loins and should be banned from the bedroom: kids, work and finances.

Do you have a work desk in your bedroom? Move it out! Replace the desk with a chair or love seat. Soft furniture create new venues for love making. Once the desk is gone, agree to ban all discussion of finances from the bedroom. Enough said.

I know this might be a bit controversial, but kids can be real libido killers. Oh, we love them, but they certainly can take up too much of our mind and energy. The bedroom is the place for the couple; that unit that existed before the babies.

Relocate all photos of the kids, parents and other family members. Framed photos of the two of you are what need to be in the bedroom.

This one may be a real challenge but I know you will see the benefits: rethink the television being in your room. I have never had one in my bedroom. Too often they compete with the thoughts and attention of lovers and are not condusive to love making. If you don’t agree with me, then hide it. If you can’t see it you won’t be as tempted to watch it. Put your t.v. in an armoir or cover it with a pretty woven shawl. Place pictures or candles on top and soon you will be spending more time with each other instead of watching programming that is almost always negative or stressful. Remember this is a room for the two of you to discover each other.

Add a few things that create the love making mood. Candles are always in order. Either real wick or LED candles placed in the areas that create the right amount of light. Your goal is to make the lighting flattering to you! Play around with them until you like what you see.

Flowers and plants soften the room and bring calmness. A soothing fountain trickling can create a truly spa-like space.

Music is one of the most important things to create a mood. Pick music that has the beats and rhythms of love making. Soon your hips and body will be swaying at the tempos of the music and you will be carried off to the land of sensual delights. One of the best CDs I have eer used is Tantric Sexuality by Llewellyn. Make sure your playlist or CD lasts more than one hour to ensure you are not interrupted.

Have you purchased new sheets since the wedding? If not, you have permission to spend some money on a high weave set of sheets or even satin!

Mirrors can be added. People are often embarrassed when this comes up and ask, “What if people see my room?” My answer is two- fold. One is, why do others have to see your bedroom? You aren’t in highschool and hang out in your room. The second is if they see it, who cares?! Let them drool with envy that you have such a vibrant sex life and it may give them a challenge to step it up at their own house.

Do you have a lock on the inside of your room? If not, by golly get one right now!

Last but not least, keep the pets and kids out of your love nest. What are we saying to our husbands when we allow the kids to consume every space in the house? The marriage bed shouldn’t be for child nurturing. Their beds are for that. If your child is upset and needs your attention, teach them to call you and you can soothe them in their own rooms. This also teaches them that their space can be a haven and they don’t need mommy’s bed.

Teach your children that the marriage bed is special and sacred and that your room is only for Mommy and Daddy. When children know their parents like each other and have special places and things just for each other breeds a sense of security and happiness.

Do I have to say much about pets? Dog hair, cat fur balls thrown up on the floor, dog breath and the pet odor is never a turn on. Pets have no place in the love nest.

These suggestions really are mostly free. Of course a beatuful comforter, curtains or any other accessories to enhance the beauty of your room will only make it more desirable but not necessary.

For women foreplay begins early in the day. The first body part to be engaged is the brain. Creating a place of serenity is the perfect place to begin your date night by sitting in your clean room, breathing and visualizing the evening ahead.

Begin creating your love nest today. I promise it will be the best thing you have done for yourself in ages.

Afternoon Delight

The sun was hot but the breeze was refreshingly cool, which made it perfect for sunning. When I have the time I like to get a little color, especially on those areas that aren’t seen wearing clothes. Tanning topless or with nothing at all isn’t an easy task with so many people coming and going from my house.

On this particular day,  no one was home and I knew no one would be for hours. This was my  chance for privacy. Wasting no time, I donned my simplest swim suit and a blanket to lay on the grass. Slipping on my sun suit, I  gathered my stuff and walked outside to find that perfect place.

Though we have a good bit of land, it is all cut up into areas that leave little unexposed.  The road can be seen from most locations adn where you can’t see  the road, you couldn’t see the sun either. That perfect place was actually very hard to find.

After walking to and fro with my excited dog at my heels, I searched for that hidden sanctuary where I could allow the sun to kiss every inch of my skin. After what seemed like forever, I layed the blanket down on my chosen spot and layed down. I breathed in the scent of fresh cut grass and looked back and forth, as if I were a criminal in hiding, and finally took off my swim suit top. Having this be my first time experiencing this rendezvous with the sun, I wasn’t brave enough to take off my bottoms. Just having my breasts exposed to the rays felt very seductive.

I looked at my watch to monitor my minutes of exposure. Ten minutes on each side, I decided, was a reasonabe first time out for my virgin skin. I layed on my stomach,  to get used to being topless. This felt safe and I relaxed a bit.

I could hear mowers in neighboring yards and slightly panicked at the thought of someone dropping by for a visit. Oh well, I thought to myself. If they do, they will see their neighbor in a new light!

After my back side’s ten minutes were up, I flipped over t. I lay my so get my front even time. I draped my swim top over my face to protect from the damaging rays. A little color I wanted. Wrinkles I didn’t want.

I could hear birds and then heard the squeak of a humming bird and knew it was near by. I smiled to myself at the thought of the little bird seeing me in all my glory, then heard a man’s voice.

“Thinking of me?” he asked. Taking a second to snap myself out of my sun induced La La land, I was thankful to realize it was my husband and not a visitor!

“Don’t move,” he said. “You look fabulous.” If I didn’t know him better I would have thought his voice sounded mad. He wasn’t mad, he gets that gruff lower voice when he is aroused.

I heard the grass crunch beneath his feet and he came to stand beside me. I could feel his body shadow the sun and my skin instantly cooled. This small change in temperature made my nipples stand at attention, as if he personally ordered it.

“Ah yes, you are thinking of me,” he said. “What are you doing out here?”

“Baking bread,” I said sarcastically. “What do you think I am doing out here?”  I mumbled from under my swim suit top. “Better question is: what are you doing here? It is so early,” I asked.

“Boss sent me home. I worked extra this week and he wanted to treat me to a few hours off. Did he know you would be waiting here half naked?”

I chuckled at thought. I couldn’t imagine calling his boss to notify him of such intimate matters.  All the same, I played along.

“Actually I called him and told him that I would be waiting for you in the back yard and if you could get home in as many minutes as I had on articles of clothing, I would give you a bonus and he wouldn’t have to worry about giving you one this year,” I teased.

“Hmmm,”  he grunted and bent down closely to me. I could smell his cologne and feel his breath. The sun was releasing the inhibitions in me. I wasn’t scared about being out in public. It was quite a turn on.

His finger pressed  on the dampness between my breasts. He ran it up the mound of my breast and circled around the dark circle. As if rubbing a genie bottle, he created a swirl of electricity throughout my body. Knowing he was achieving the desired affect, he gave the other breast the same treatment.  I froze and stopped breathing, as if I might scare him away. Deepening the desire, his tongue followed his fingers trail and his finger moved on downward to my belly.

His tongue was cool compared to the sun, and was a moistening balm from the blistering heat. His breath even felt  cool against my hot skin.

“It is man’s dream to come home and find his wife naked. Finding her naked outside is a fantasy,” his breath created little breezy movements.

The tension made it harder to breath and I pulled away the swim top away.  His lips quickly came down hard on my mouth. His tongue searched mine for its partner and the intensity of the dance  made me light headed.

His mouth searched my neck and he tickeled me with little nibbles over my shoulders.

“You taste good…. salty,” he said in a low voice. I knew that voice. It was the voice of a hungry man.

I wrapped my arms around his neck and he lowered his head onto my chest, once again. Though he was eager to get it on, he knew to monitor my speed. Sensing no reistance to move forward,  his mouth and tongue devoured my body; licking and suckling as he pleased.

Oh, it felt so good! He knew how to turn me on. The hot sun, the fragrant grass and the element of risk took it to a new level. I could feel the throbbing base-like beat between my legs and I was ready for whatever the moment offered.

“You… are… hot,” he said in short breaths. I smiled knowing that he believed that to be true and I was eager to prove it.

His hand crept into my bikini bottom, searching for the slippery signal of my arousal.  He knew instantly I was not just going on the ride but enjoying the journey.

He unzipped his pants and he popped out like a Jack In The Box. I loved the sight of his erection. Though it was his sign of man power, I knew also was well aware of my power as a woman to satisfy him. He positioned himself above me, on his hands and knees, as if to think of where to go next. Excited to know what he wanted, I waited for his next move. He stroked his shaft several times, as if to get control of it and……

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A Long, Hard Winter

She was happy to finally feel the sun, again. She glanced towards the sun in homage. The winter was long and hard. She hated the cold; she liked it hot. The only thing she liked long and hard was him. The thought of him made her tingle, inside. Perhaps he was thinking of her, too.

She ventured out to the wood lot, dodging thorny bushes in the field. She stopped and listened for the buzz of the chain saw. After following the loud whine of wood being cut, she found him working on a large cedar. His hands gripped the machine with all his might. The muscles on his arms were flexed and taunt.

The sunlight made the sweat on his body glisten. He looked delicious. She stopped near him, standing off to the side so she wouldn’t spook him. Surprises when one held dangerous machinery wasn’t a good idea.He turned off the motor, grabbed the mask off his head and wiped his forehead with the back of his hand.

“Hey there,” she greeted him, huskily. “Working hard?” she asked. Just the word “hard” made her inner thighs contract and work wasn’t what she was thinking of.

He glanced her way intentionally eyeing her from head to toe in a lustful, slow study. His wife had on shorts and a halter styled top. Her legs were long and tan and her small but perky breasts filled the top just right. They were ordinary clothes, but not an ordinary woman.

“You look hot,” he said, giving her that lusty grin she loved.

“That is the temperature speaking,” she said.

“My temperature was just fine until you came by.” he teased.

“Well now, we might have to do something about that.” she sassed back.

“What do you have in mind?” he said in a pleading voice, as he drew closer to her.

“I say we go to the pond. The water is warm enough. Let’s go play!”

He put down the saw and reached for her. As he pulled her close, he could feel her breath on his face and closed his eyes and inhaled the scent of her. How could he be married to the same woman so long and it still be so exciting?

“Let’s go,” he growled and kissed her hard.

He took her soft hand in his and started to walk the path, to the pond. They stopped periodically to kiss and make out a bit, and when half way there, he looked around to see if they were alone.

“Do you think anyone can see us?” he asked, like a school boy who was pulling a prank.

“Unless they are four legged creatures, I doubt there is a soul around.” she said, reading his mind.

She wrapped her arms around him and kissed him deeply, giving him a little tongue. He moved his hand over her top, feeling the soft cotton. After tiring of the feel of fabric, he simply and quickly took it off. Beneath, she was bra-less and her breasts tightened from the sweep of sudden exposure. He bent down searching for the mounts of delight. His tongue flicked on her nipple peaks and licked a twisty circle around them. She moaned and her legs felt rubbery. Wanting her mouth on him, she lifted his t-shirt over his head and bent to lick the salty sweat off his chest. Though he had worked hard he still smelled clean and fresh, something she never quite understood about him.

His pecs tightened as her hands moved down to his zipper and she could feel the bulge it was hiding. Their breathing got heavier but they  paused, knowing this was the journey, not the destination.They continued to walk down the path, her topless and him, breathless.

“This is how you could get me to walk with you every day!” he teased.

Upon seeing the water, they both took off in a run, squealing like kids. Stopping at the pier edge, he quickly took off the rest of his clothes. He plunged in the cool water, his erection pointing the way. She was right behind him, tossing off her flip flops and pants.

She jumped in and gasped as the cool water hit her sacred regions.

“It’s cold!” she yelled.

“Come here, I will warm you,” he said in a deep voice that sounded like sex itself.

He pulled her close, wrapping his arms around her waist. They ran their hands over each others silky, wet bodies and she found his heat, taking a handful. She could feel his rigid erection and she could feel herself tighten inside.

They frolicked in the water; desire warming them.She grabbed on the pier edge, facing the sun with an attempt to feel the warm sun on her chest. Her breasts were above the water, standing at attention and he took the invitation for what it was. He gently bit her nipples, twisting them between his lips. He ventured lower, sliding his tongue down her torso, nibbling his way down to the patch of hair, under the water. He went under, searching between her legs. She allowed her legs to float up and part, giving him complete access. She leaned her head back on the pier and sucked in her breath. The movements were lubricated by the water and more intense than normal. He came up for air and she could see the playful lust in his eyes.

“I’ve business to finish.” he stated.

He kissed her deeply, sucking her tongue and inhaled deeply as he went back down.He slid his finger deep inside her, rubbing her g-spot as his tongue continued to flick her in a sensuous tempo. The rhythm of his tongue and finger was what she needed to take her there. Amidst the chirping of frogs and the bird’s mating songs, she let out her own sensual cry.Having completed his desired mission, he faced her, grabbing the pier and she wrapped her arms around his neck, clinging to him with her long legs.

He easily entered her and they rocked back and forth, creating little waves in the water. Her mouth left hot breath on his neck and she nibbled on his ears. As she sucked his ear lobe, matching the beat of his thrusts, he let out a shout of ecstasy, completing the mating song.They clung to each other as the shock waves rippled through their bodies, while gently rubbing each other’s skin.She looked at him with heavy, lusty eyes. “You make me forget winter,” she said.”Stick around. There is more where that came from.” he promised.She knew that was true and reached down to fondle “round two” into reality.